Actually folks, this is how I see it....
The shock + spring itself is thrash AF (lets face it, it is).
GIven the notion that 3 is factory setting for say a 50kg person, but you conditionally accept the fact that the shock is soft. Hence in order to counter the weak shock, you might have to up the click to say 5,6,7 to put yourself in a position of the notion "factory setting of 3 is great for a 50kg guy".
For instance, I weigh 48kg and many people tells me I should set it to like 1 or 2. But somehow something doesn't feels right to me. I went all the way up from 9 and slowly tune down and I realized that 6-7 seems alright for my weight.
Unfortunately for rider weighing 80-100, more often than not, they tried to make do with 9 setting but eventually swap it out for aftermarket exhaust.
Front fork - diving is mad. I swap out the stock fork spring for hyperpro progressive spring (-20mm). Incredibly, diving is no longer an issue.